If a Boyfriend is Prepared to Throw away 2 years of a lovely
relasionship just because l smoke sometimes
..

Is he worth it?

l think the better question for you is,

Is the cigarettes worth it?

Only you can answer that question. On the other hand, if you knew he did not like it why do you do it?

If you love him, you should quite smoking, not only is it bad for you but bad for him as well. He probably does not want to see you suffer a long painful death that smoking will end up doing to you.

NO.ask yourself how he will try an alter you next.

no!.if he cant except you for who you are and what you do fook him!.if he would really leave you over smoking now and then it just shows how much you meen to him does`nt it?

No, he is an rse!!

You are not worth it. Flip this around. You are choosing a death sentence over your boyfriend.

No, he is not worth it. If he really cared about you he'd accept your flaws too. He would not break up with you just because you smoke. He may encourage you to quit if he really hates it that much, but he would not leave if he truly cared.

smoking may be bad for you but it is not like you're chain smoking and he should not try to force you to do things you do not want to do or essentially 'blackmail' you by saying if you stop smoking he will stay with you. he sounds like a controlling person, even if not much so at the moment and it could get worse and you will end up living your life how he wants you to.

well just think about it ... are the cigarettes worth it ???????

which one do u love more ?????
the things that can make you seriously ill or your boyfriend ????????

i know which one l would choose .!

Perhaps he cares a lot about you and dosnt want to be with someone who is at a high potential risk of self inflicted lung cancer and this is the only way he can get you to understand that.
Perhaps he really hates the smell and maybe you should understand that too.

Daisy,smoking affects your health, it is already affecting your spelling, he is only concerned for you that you dont have a premature death

hes stupid y the fuk wud he throw u away just 4 smokin

Are the cigarettes worth it?

I've never had a second date with a woman who smokes, it smells too vile to kiss her!

there r two to this question. ther first one is smoking is bad for ur health & u shoud try to stop
regardless of that.. ur boyfriend if he loved u would not even notice the occasional smoking & even if he did should be prepared to compromise. if he cannot compromise on that what else will he not compromise on.
the answer to ur question. No he isnt but he probably thinks he is.
quit smoking. but not now & not for him. Do it for yourself when u have sorted this out.

Good luck

If he is prepared to throw it all away, then he is not worth it. Tell him to hit the damn road!

And when did the word ''quit'' start being spelled ''quite''? l see that all the time on here. Are people crazy?

Do u see cigarettes as ur friend - because they're not. They're just a ball & chain. The only reason people see them as a ''friend'' is because smoking them relieves the very addiction they cause in the first place.
Plus, smokers r generally moody people because nicotine plays with ur brain chemistry. It is a stimulant. So ur moods r up, down, up, down, etc. etc.

Could this be the reason ur boyfriend wants out of the relationship?

Allan Carr, in his book on how to give up smoking, says even if u only smoke one cigarette a day, you're in withdrawal & craving a smoke the rest of the time. It is not worth it.

He should accept you for who you are but you should quit smoking for your own sake as well as for your future children (if you are planning to have children). The longer you smoke the harder it is to quit.

If you quit and everything else is fine, then good, but if he tries to change you in other ways that you are uncomfortable with or if the realtionship is bad, dump him.

you should dump the ciggies for your own health and some one seems to be trying to control you so l would dump him for peace of mind in the future

No. He is not worth it if he can not accept ur smoking habit.

l have one question for you.did he know that u smoked before u started dating? If so, then he should have known that ur smoking habit came with the package, & should not have a problem with it. If u did not smoke when u met, then although he has a reason to be angry, he should really decide how much he cares about you.

If he is willing to get rid of u just because of an ''occasional'' smoking habit, he obviously does not care for u as much as u thought. l am sure he has habits that u do not like, but u put up with them because u care about him.

Personally, l prefer girls who smoke, so if things do not work out with ur boyfriend.let me know! You deserve better!