l have a friend she is some on l like. she is not my best friend but l like her. anyways her husband had a operation on his colon twice now. he is now in ICU . l was wondering because they say he might not make it. anyways l wanna send Flowers to the family. do you think this is ok to do. or do l write a card thanks

It is ALWAYS ok to do something thoughtful, it does not matter for whom your doing if for. You'd be doing a good thing :-)

They do not often allow flowers in ICU so l suggest the card. l am so sorry and pray he gets well soon. Of course flowers to the house would be lovely or perhaps that card with a restaurant gift card for a meal near the hospital. People often forget to eat when a loved one is ill.

l would send flowers and l card!!